Five Questions to Ask If You’re Offered IVF

Embarking on the journey of in vitro fertilisation (IVF) is a significant decision that requires careful consideration and thorough preparation. Ensuring that you have been thoroughly tested can optimise your chances for success. Here are five essential questions to ask your fertility specialist before starting IVF:

1. Have We Done Comprehensive Testing to Identify All Potential Issues?

Before starting IVF, it's crucial to undergo a full evaluation to identify any underlying conditions that could affect your fertility.

  • Why This Matters: A thorough assessment can uncover issues that may need to be addressed to improve your chances of success with IVF. There could also be conditions that with the right treatment could increase your chances of a spontaneous conception

  • These could include additional tests such as:

    • Vaginal Microbiome: Have we tested the balance of good and harmful bacteria in my vaginal flora? An imbalance can lead to infections and inflammation, potentially hindering embryo implantation and natural conception.

    • Sperm DNA Fragmentation: Has my partner's sperm been tested for DNA fragmentation? High levels can lead to lower fertilisation rates, poor embryo development, and increased miscarriage rates. I’ve had 3 clients in the last year that have had treatment for this resulting in spontaneous conception and conception via IVF.

    • Vitamin and Nutrient Deficiencies: Have we checked for essential vitamins and minerals such as vitamin D, vitamin B12, folic acid, iron, and antioxidants? Deficiencies can impact both male and female fertility.

2. What Are the Success Rates for Someone with My Profile?

IVF success rates can vary significantly based on factors like age, underlying fertility issues, and overall health.

  • Why This Matters: Knowing the specific success rates for someone with your unique profile helps set realistic expectations and aids in making a well-informed decision.

  • Follow-Up Question: How do these success rates compare with other fertility treatments I might be considering?

3. What Are the Risks and Side Effects?

IVF, like any medical procedure, comes with potential risks and side effects, ranging from mild to severe.

  • Why This Matters: Understanding the possible risks ensures you’re fully aware of what the treatment entails and can prepare you for any potential complications.

  • Follow-Up Question: What is the likelihood of these side effects and how are they typically managed?

4. What Is the Cost and What Does It Include?

IVF can be expensive, and costs can vary depending on the clinic and your individual treatment plan.

  • Why This Matters: Knowing the full cost upfront, including medication, consultations, and procedures, helps you plan financially and avoid unexpected expenses. Some clinics also offer payment plans which can be helpful but always ensure you read the T&C’s to ensure it’s the best option for you.

  • Follow-Up Question: Are there financing options, insurance coverage, or potential additional costs that might arise during the treatment?

5. What Emotional and Psychological Support Is Available?

The IVF journey can be emotionally and psychologically challenging.

  • Why This Matters: Knowing that support is available can be comforting and help you cope better with the process. In the UK this is mandatory but if you are having treatment somewhere else it may nit be available.

  • Follow-Up Question: Are there counselling services, support groups, or other resources that can provide emotional support during my treatment?

Conclusion

Deciding to undergo IVF is a significant step, and being well-informed can make the process smoother and less stressful. By asking these five questions, you’ll gain a clearer understanding of what to expect, which can help you feel more confident and prepared for your IVF journey.

Remember, your fertility specialist is there to help guide you through this process, so don’t hesitate to ask questions and seek clarity on anything that concerns you. I can also assist in any way should you have questions or need additional support.

Hazel xx

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